2010
10.06

Stacy Blair

Friday, September 18, on his 56th birthday, trumpet player, Stacy Blair died in his sleep.

Stacy was blind since birth.  Stacy Blair, “blind since birth”.   Those words were always present before or after his name in the many programs and  newspaper articles he was featured in for the many, many performances he did all over the world.   “Stacy Blair,… BSB”, as some of the Cowboy Band guys called him.   Of course they substituted different words in those initials.  In fact, no one really said anything other than ‘BSB‘.    It was implied and that’s what made it funny.   Subtlety.   And Stacy, who warriored through life with his sense of humor, laughed harder than anyone at the good natured joke.   In fact, Stacy’s sense of humor and his self styled persona of not taking himself too seriously was one of his great traits and one of the things I think people will remember about him.   Stacy was always ready with a corny joke or self-effacing jibe at himself.   I was hoping to relive and experience some of that at his service.

Sep. 22, was Stacy’s service in his hometown of Eastland Tx.   There were about 70 people in attendance including about a dozen of his former college band mates.   I have to admit the message delivered wasn’t exactly what I would have liked (or done myself).  Anyone of the band members there that day could have related humorous and personal anecdotes.  I understand the service was arranged per Stacy’s wishes but it just wasn’t as personal as I would have liked.  I missed that.

There was a recording of Stacy’s music played during the service.   A loop played of some of Stacy’s religous recordings during the service – an album he’d done of hymns.  Even he would have agreed – not the best example of his work.   Nor do I believe the very thing he’d want to be remembered for.  I longed to hear some of his classical works.  The things that made him famous; that made him unique in the trumpet world.  I missed that too.o

So, I’ll give my own little eulogy.   Some things I might have said…or would liked to have heard.

Stacy loved Mexican food.   He loved cheap Mexican food.  And Stacy found the crummiest, grungiest places.  And he was loyal to his haunts.   I don’t know how many times I’d say “Stacy, I’ll take you anywhere you want to go.  My treat.”  ” Oh no, no.   This place has great enchiladas.   It’s all you can eat on Wednesday for 2.99 …. and you get three of them.” “Oh, ok, Stacy.” Also, Stacy’s table manners left something to be desired, but that was part of his charm.   He’d commandeer the only bowl of salsa at the table, eat out of it with a spoon, and ask where yours was.   He’d blow his nose in the cloth napkins if it happened to be a place that fancy.  I remember him licking the butter off, all up and down his forearm, from a freshly buttered piece of hot bread once.   He offered great conversation and was fun to be around so you went with it.   Again, that was part of his charm.

A story I like about Stacy is one where he was playing a fellow band member’s wedding at the Episcopal church in Midland Texas.   At the rehearsal Stacy had played what he was asked to play- as a trumpet player should, but the preacher informed Stacy he was playing too loud and that “we didn’t play that loud in the Episcopal church”.   ( I don’t know what he thought a trumpet did or what they were usually known for.  I’ve been known to play loudly in a church or two, especially the Episcopal ones.)  At any rate, Stacy humbly said he would comply.   And the next day during the wedding Stacy opened up both barrels and proceeded to blow the doors off the church.   A good trumpet story.   A good Stacy Blair story.   Draw your own conclusions.

Stacy loved a corny joke and he had a million of them.  When he found out my wife was a viola player he rolled out the many viola jokes.   “How do you know when a group of viola players is at your front door?  They don’t know when to come in.”  ” A viola player and an oboe player in the symphony were just sitting in rehearsal once….not playing.   The conductor asked them why they weren’t playing.   The oboe player said, she broke my reed. And the violist said, he turned a tuning peg and won’t tell me which one.”    He briefly tried his hand at stand up comedy at a place up in Addison.  One of his jokes was something about being offered to take the controls on a flight once but he declined, citing the fact that he didn’t have a 35,000 foot leash for his seeing eye dog.  His assistant band director from high school shared that Stacy had a habit as a youth of going down to the center of town and selling pencils just for the effect on a Saturday afternoon.   He would also joke about this when I knew him too. “What are you going to do right now Stacy?”  ” Oh, I think I’ll just go over here and sell pencils.”

I first met Stacy around the time he’d won the Andre competition in ’79.   That was a couple of years after I’d started playing the horn.   He had been a student of my father’s at Hardin Simmons.   My Dad instructed him in music theory classes and made him write out his assignments on huge pieces of poster board with a staff a foot high and note heads as big as baseballs.   He had limited vision then and was able to complete the assignments.   He later told me that was good for him to know.  When I was old enough to drive in high school I’d pick him up at the air port or bus station when he was coming back through town and he’d always give me a lesson.   I remember feeling like I was wheeling around a local celebrity that no one knew but me.   We’d usually go back to Hardin Simmons campus for our lesson.  Once in his hotel room even.  Afterwards he’d always suggest we go to Steak and Ale.   I noticed as time went on our lessons got shorter and shorter, and our departure time for the restaurant got earlier and earlier.   I remember being aware of this after only maybe a 15 minute lesson once.   I let this bother me for a moment and then I thought, “what am I fighting?   Let’s go eat.” Stacy really introduced me to a fine steak dinner.   Ah, the bourbon street strip.   Good times.

Stacy was really the stuff in the trumpet world after winning the Andre competition and was making the rounds all over for a while.   He’d tell me stories of staying at Doc Sevrinson’s house for weeks at a stretch.  He told me of attending a recording session of the re doing of the cornet solo theme song of The Walton’s during it’s last season.  He told me of the rigueurs of the Andre competition itself and his year in France studying with the man as part of the contest winnings.  (He always said Andre would say a little French wine and a little piccolo trumpet playing as a daily regimen keep you in shape) Stacy spoke about a world of performing and people I wanted to be a part of.    This was all cool stuff to a boy who’d grown up in West Texas and didn’t always exactly fit into the environment he’d been placed in.   He also helped me understand developing a daily routine and approach to the instrument which I draw on to this day.

He told me of a time shortly after he’d won the Andre that George Yeager, former conductor of the Abilene Philharmonic, called him very last minute to fill in for another soloist who’d canceled.  I believe Mr. Yeager asked him to play the Arutunian trumpet concerto with the symphony.   This was the very piece that Stacy played in the final round of the Andre competition that won him top prize.  Yeager apologized up front by saying they could only pay him 3,000 for his appearance.   This was still very early in Stacy’s career and being used to 50 dollars a performance, modest love offerings in churches, and things of that nature, this was a lot of money to him.  He told me he took in the amount for a moment, knew that the bus ride to Abilene from Eastland would cost very little,  and would take him right to the Civic Center doors practically.   He used to laugh when telling me this story….his response to Yeager’s apologetic request was, “that’s fine“.

The classical division of CBS records was considering signing Stacy as a classical trumpet artist around this time.   From what I understand it almost happened until a young, then unknown, trumpet player named Wynton Marsalis came on the scene.  Stacy’s career and his playing seemed to taper off as time went on and I think health issues and personal problems caused him to never get back to where he was.   Through the years he played less and less and seemed to be doing more speaking engagements on behalf of the blind and other organizations.   He also had been broken into several times and most of his horns were stolen including his Bb Bach.  When I saw Stacy last spring he had a First Act trumpet someone had gotten him from Walmart.

I had stayed in touch with Stacy off and on through out the years and had recently gotten back in touch with him because of his many personal matters.   Not the least of which was his health.   After helping him get help he eventually ended up at an assisted living center about a half a mile from me.  We took Stacy out for dinner once and we spoke on the phone often.   I didn’t find the time to see him again.   I kept telling him, and myself, that I just needed to get the first 4 or 5 weeks of school under my belt and then we’d have him over for a home cooked meal.    Ironically, as I started to feel like I could breath a little, he died on the Friday of the fourth week.  It’s one of those things that puts everything in perspective and makes many things seem inconsequential.

After many health issues he seemed up beat and very positive about the future.  I spoke to him two days before he died.   He was making plans to get together a group of trumpet players for his birthday, the Sunday after.   In between classes I called him and played Happy Birthday on his answering machine, that Friday,  the morning of his birthday.  I stuck a little personalized quote at the end as I like to do for people I know (a little bit of the Vivaldi oboe concerto adapted for piccolo trumpet from his first album).  I waited to hear back from him that day.   I played for him about 9:30 that morning.   The nurses think he was gone at 8:30.

I had another trumpet teacher, whose opinion I respected, make a dismissive comment once about Stacy, saying that he had made a career being a Maurice Andre impersonator.   I like to think Stacy made a career out of furthering baroque trumpet music in the world.  At the time I remember thinking that was a bit harsh and unfair.   After all, isn’t every trumpet player trying to copy Maurice Andre to an extent?  Everyone should be so lucky to get close to that (I’ve taken note of the fact that Wynton has styled his piccolo playing very close Andre’s).

We’d made plans even further down the road of attending a baroque trumpet concert at TCU on October 17, a Sunday night.  I told him we would and I plan on making it there and thinking of him that night.

As I said, Stacy had a stylized persona that I kind of kidded about.   I always got a kick out of his out going message.  He introduced himself by sayingHello, I’m Stacy Blair“. I would kid him about this and told him it sounded like he was introducing himself on a ’70’s variety show.   I always waited for, and expected, applause and a theme song to kick in.   I’m going to write that song (UPDATE- I wrote that song) and plan on paying homage to Stacy with a Youtube video some day.

Stacy was a teacher and friend to me, problems and all.   I can’t help but think I could have done more for him near the end.   You lay in bed at night thinking about those types of things.   I hope I was something of a friend to him.

Rest in peace Stacy Blair, BSB.

Some Stacy links, including his website

http://stacyblair.org/Stacy_Blair/Home.html

http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/news/localnews/stories/DN-blairob_30met.ART.Central.Edition1.33294aa.html

http://www.trumpetguild.org/news/10/1067sb.html

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  1. Here’s another link to read from the Baptist Standard.
    http://www.baptiststandard.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=11678&Itemid=53

  2. Ah thanks. I think I shall add that. Funny, I’ve tried to document some things about the man and his history in an entertaining and informative way for the trumpet players of the world and the only one who will probably read this is a drummer.

  3. Your write-up made the man live for me. I never met him in life, but now I feel as if I have something of a new friend. I’m sorry for your loss, but happy that you got to know this interesting man.

  4. Thank you Clifford.

  5. When Stacy played with the Austin Symphony, his Austin friends took him out to dinner at Sasha’s, a high-end Russian restaurant. When the waiter brought us our food, I said, “Man, that looks good!” Without hesitation, Stacy moved his fingers over his plate and said, “Feels good, too!”

  6. That’s a good story Tommy ( I know it’s Tom now). I will send that to ITG too. They more or less turned down my proposed article. They may use parts of what I wrote…I don’t know. I can’t, or don’t want to, write just a “He was born here….., he played here”….died here article. Knew him too well. Looking forward to seeing you if you’re at his celebration.

  7. Stacy never mentioned you to the family. We didn’t even know you existed.

    As far as the funeral arrangements, we followed his desire, which he sent the day before he died, exactly, interesting. Songs, sermons, speakers were all Stacy’s selection. You have the day he died wrong. He did die on his birthday as he wanted. You were not allowed to speak because the family had never heard or you nor did we know who you were. Stacy never mentioned you.

    You fail to mention his was just released from a dependent program and that is how he died.

    You also failed to mention his family. Stacy was a twin. One of three brothers. His family supported him for 30+ years and then even more. There are many more stories you failed to mention.

    Glad you were able to recall your less than 48 total hours with Stacy in his life.

  8. Hey Ed,

    I’ve spoken to you on the phone. Remember, you lent me some photos for this blog entry that I sent to ITG?

    I apologize about getting the date wrong. I’ll change that.

    I helped him his last year or so. Was in contact quite a bit at the end. I helped him when he was in transition. I drove him to that ‘dependent program’ to Abilene. My car. My dime. My time. I intentionally left that out. And those that really knew him know there’s a few stories that need not be articulated. Don’t we all have a few of those? It was not my intent to air dirty laundry.

    I didn’t mention the family because my blog wasn’t about the family. It was about him.
    And if those truly were Stacy’s wishes I still think his life could have been better served with a different selection of music. I’m not trying to run anyone down…it’s Just my opinion. It is my blog after all. And I wasn’t alone in this thought by the way. There were a lot of schooled musicians there that day. And quite frankly I think there were better speaker selections…but again, my blog.

    I knew Stacy about 30 years total. Stacy was a student of my Dad’s back in the day at HSU. As I said, he was kind of a hero of mine as younger person. There’s no disrespect meant or need to be defensive. This was my attempt at honoring him. What’s the saying? “No good deed goes unpunished?”

  9. And also Ed, I know lots of stories just as I’m sure you do. Lots of stories I’m sure Stacy wouldn’t want printed publicly but it’s not my intention to focus on the bad times or his weaknesses. I thought the purpose and tone of my blog were pretty obvious.